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The Daily Grind of Work

By John Soforic on 08/23/2019

Work, continuous work and hard work, is the only way to accomplish results that last. ––Hamilton Holt

Goal setting is imagination. Goal getting is determination. Wealth follows a clear goal backed by daily plodding, plowing, grinding and thankless activity. Aesop once wrote, “Plodding wins the race.”

We’re reminded that a farmer sows in the spring and reaps in the fall. But this classic metaphor isn’t perfect in this modern world.

After a day of work, a farmer gets to see the visible accomplishment of his labor. The soil is plowed and seeded for the world to see.

In our endeavors, however, we don’t always witness the daily progress of our efforts. We leave work tired and without clear progress.

It feels like thankless work, and it becomes a daily grind.

“You have to stay focused and be mentally tough,” said Chris Gronkowski. “That’s what I’ve really learned: every day is a grind, and you have to go hard.”

The daily grind is work without instant rewards. The prize of success comes only after the price of success is fully paid. It just takes time.

“It takes time, it’s a grind. There are no shortcuts. You’ve got to grind and grind,” said Mark Cuban.

 “You’ve gotta learn to love the grind,” said John Calipari, “because life IS the grind.”

–John Soforic, author of The Wealthy Gardener

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What is despair trying to tell you?

By John Soforic on 08/22/2019

I found that wanting fast results only led to despair. ––the Wealthy Gardener

You’re tired of the struggle. You feel overwhelmed and incapable of achieving your dreams. You see no progress; in fact, you see only a lot of conditions that you don’t want.

And you try to ignore the despair.

Despair can be due to many things. We feel despair when we have false expectations, when we find the journey harder than we expected, when we fall short of our goals, or when we find that all worthy achievement takes longer than we originally imagined.

But what should we do about it?

A quote from Edmund Burke hangs on my wall: “Never despair,” he wrote, “but if you do, work on in despair.” His words remind me that sitting in idleness only intensifies despair, while activity cures it.

Maybe despair is a call to double down our efforts.

Lord Alfred Tennyson advises, “I must lose myself in action, lest I wither in despair.” Misery can be a sign to get moving.

“A lot of what passes for depression these days is nothing more than a body saying that it needs work,” said Geoffrey Norman. Work is easier than worry. And surprisingly, work can alleviate our despair.

–John Soforic, author of The Wealthy Gardener

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So today you feel small?

By John Soforic on 08/21/2019

Courage does not always roar. Sometimes it’s that quiet voice at the end of the day saying, “I will try again tomorrow.” ––Mary Anne Madracher

So at times you feel small? You can barely handle your current responsibilities. You’re stressed, overwhelmed, and too busy to think about goals. Today you feel small in the face of your demands.

Well, it’s okay to have a bad day. In fact, it’s normal.

“Some days are for living,” said Malcolm S. Forbes. “Others are for getting through.”

At the most hectic summit of my productive working years, I was running three small businesses, and each day was a war against problems. If running away had been a viable option, I would have laced up my shoes. But we expand our boundaries, limitations, and capabilities through pressure and discomfort.

It’s just not always a whole lot of fun.

“A smooth sea never made a skillful mariner,” an English proverb suggests. And as we endure, our challenges strengthen us.

You’re not alone if you sometimes feel small in a bad day. It is the expectation of perfection that causes much of our misery.

Every week will have good days and bad, and it’s best to know that a successful week does not require seven great days. Success requires four good workdays. On the bad days, well, just get through it.

Success is a good batting average. When you feel inadequate, don’t beat yourself up over it. Go to bed, and try again tomorrow.

We all have bad days. Just try not to have two in a row.

–John Soforic, author of The Wealthy Gardener

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Hello world!

By John Soforic on 03/01/2018

Welcome to WordPress. This is your first post. Edit or delete it, then start writing!

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