“Only a fool would aim for survival.” -the Wealthy Gardener
LESSON 2-3 REMINDER
Money won’t make us happy, they say. But in my twenties, I learned what it was like to be on a revolving treadmill with no financial direction.
Three years into my career, I was only making ends meet. I worked six days a week, but had no savings. And I felt defeated by an empty bank account. I then realized that an income without more than enough is not nearly enough.
Without a surplus beyond my living expenses, I would never be able to take my family on vacations. I would have to say “no” to helping my kids throughout their lives. I would be forced to decline assistance to my aging parents in their later years. I knew that thoughts of work would always nag me while I spent time with family and friends. And, most important, I would leave myself, and those who count on me, vulnerable to the slightest economic setback.
On the other hand, I considered, having excess money would transform my family life. My wife and I could relax together. Our minds would be free to think and read in leisure. We could pursue nobler causes with more meaning. We could take dream vacations to enrich our lives. We could pursue our interests. We would never be a monetary burden to our kids. Our hopes would be greater, and our options would be exciting.
Money may not buy happiness, but it does pay for options. Without chasing o dollar, you can choose to give your to important tasks. You can choose your contribution, your service to others, your mission, and your life purpose.
And these things lead to fulfillment and happiness. Never let others dictate your life. Wealth allows our full potential. With more than enough, you can experience this one life on your own terms.
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Great article. “The Buffer” or “Gap” is often overlooked, but is the absolute foundation of all financial success.